We are a mix of tech + art + circus people. We are community-minded people who value open communication, kindness, and friendship. We value a cozy and chill home-space and enjoy hosting friends at the house. We've all lived in SF for many years, and have lots of recommendations and social events to suggest to you!
Mollie
Me in bullet form 😊 :
- I am polyamorous / a relationship anarchist. Ben, who lives in the house, is one of my partners.
- I do my best to be a direct, clear, honest communicator. And I appreciate direct, clear, and honest communication in return. 🤗
- Partner dancer 💃: fusion, blues, Lindy hop, Brazilian zouk, urban kiz, tango, salsa, waltz + more styles
- I host the monthly San Francisco Poly Happy Hour.
- New climber 🧗: I got really into earlier this year. Have been in a bit of a dip lately, and would love to get back into the habit again!
- Got into strength training last year. 🏋️ Trying to keep it up!
- Tattoo canvas
- I work in tech: developer relations engineer for Google
- I have ADHD and I sometimes space out during stories because something the person said makes my brain go down a quick rabbit hole. If this happens with you and I ask you to rewind ten seconds, please don’t take it personally.
- Lightly involved in Effective Altruism and effective giving. Interested in doing what I can to reduce suffering.
- I don’t eat animals. 💜🐣
Ben
Ben has been writing and performing poems and short works since late 2021. In addition to poems, he performs improvised bedtime stories, standup comedy, and teaches workshops on storytelling.
He has a job in computer security and ai, and helps run https://decentered.org
He loves reading, performing stories and poems that he writes, hosting events, making heartfelt jokes, attending festivals and retreats. He’s been rediscovering the joy of chill evenings!
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